Author Jeff Brown as heard, read & seen on:                                                                                          as seen on
sfr headerHealing The Effects of
Unawakened Men

A course for women

A 6-Week Downloadable
Audio Course

with an additional 64 pages of written exercises and meditations created by Soulshaping and Apologies to the Divine Feminine author Jeff Brown

butterfly woman2

Add to Cart

This course is an invitation.

An invitation to heal. An invitation to release. An invitation to express. An invitation to resolve. An invitation to self-forgive. An invitation to re-open your heart. An invitation to prioritize your own healing. An invitation to empowerment.

An invitation to wholeness.

An invitation to be free of the effects of
unhealed memories and relationships
with unawakened men.

This course is not intended as a bashing of the unawakened man, for we are surely all unawakened in different respects. It is also not intended to suggest that all men are unawakened, or that all women are awakened. BUT it is a grounded recognition of the fact that centuries of warrior conditioning have made it difficult for many men to get below their emotional armor and move from their hearts in their relationships with women. Often without even realizing it, the unconscious masculine leaves an echo of pain, confusion and trauma that lingers with women, impacting on their internal freedom and life satisfaction. This healing course disregards the ‘spiritually correct’ language of ‘non-victimhood’ and ‘all pain is an illusion’, and recognizes that we must claim and heal our wounds before we can move beyond them. Where there is pain and confusion, healing is required. It is that simple and it is that essential. The only way to it is through it. Better we create an environment that invites a deeper excavation of any unresolved emotional material. Better we heal and clear the wounds than accumulate them. Let our quest for healing begin with emotional authenticity.

In this downloadable course, you will… 
  • Heal the effects of unawakened men
  • Express your rightful anger
  • Release & resolve pain and confusion
  • Tools & Meditations for Healing
  • Clarify learnings & lessons
  • Up-frame your experience & re-open your heart. 


This course supports the healing and transformation of the wounds, traumas and negative self-beliefs inflicted by the shadow of the masculine. 

In many ways, this course was birthed by the same energy that fueled Jeff’s 2010 writing called ‘The Apologies to the Divine Feminine (from a warrior in transition)’. This blog was met with a positive viral response world-wide and reflects a growing shift in awareness in the awakening man. We are waking up slowly, but we are beginning to wake up. To read Apologies… 


After the introductory audio, Jeff guides you through this course in a series of stages. You begin with the identification of unresolved experiences and relationships, and then move through five stages of healing and resolution on the path to empowerment and self-love. With tools, exercises, stories and meditations as support, Jeff’s heartfelt and insightful talks create a safe-space for your healing journey. The studio-recorded talks are heart-opening all on their own, and create an environment that invites a deeper penetration of any unresolved emotional material. The listener feels authentically seen and invited in the direction of their own healing and liberation.

6 weekly talks and 64 pages of exercises, meditations and supportive writings:    
Meditation sfr bullets2

*As an added bonus, Jeff reads THE APOLOGIES TO THE DIVINE FEMININE and includes a group of his most profound and helpful LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP quotes at the back of the written document.

arrow2 arrow2 arrow2
Add to Cart
Healing The Effects OF Unawakened Men



To read about the Soulshaping Institute Economic Philosophy and Payment Methods before ordering. Click-Here-Blue


* A percentage of all sales will go to supporting the wonderful work of Selah Freedom ( Selah Freedom’s mission is to bring awareness to the issue of sex trafficking and to provide a safe place for survivors to heal. They help sexually exploited individuals find their voice and purpose and to reclaim all that was stolen from them through their victimization. They are doing beautiful work in the world. Please check them out.

This course can be helpful for any woman who feels the weight of the wounds and the negative messaging from her experiences with unawakened men, and seeks acknowledgment and support in her efforts to work them through to resolution and freedom. No one should have to carry another person’s baggage. I have been fortunate enough to experience the healing of my wounds with the support of some special women in my life, and one of the reasons I wanted to create this course is because I think men should also support this kind of work in women. In addition, I believe that the ultimate direction for gender is a breaking down of the polarities between us. Gender may be the greatest unresolved battlefield on mother earth, and if we keep standing on the opposite side of the field, the beautiful world we are here to co-create will be lost to us. We must ultimately learn to shed our armor and meet in the middle, recognizing our shared humanness and holding each other’s hearts safe. To reach that stage, we must begin with the healing of what has happened. There is no way around it. Among other things, that healing will require that awakening men share their understanding of the unawakened man with those who have suffered at his hands. I have been him, and sometimes I still am him, and I feel that there is value in sharing my own learnings and insights with women.




Author Bio: A former criminal lawyer and psychotherapist, Jeff Brown is the author of Soulshaping: A Journey of Self-Creation, and a recent book of spiritual graffiti- Ascending with Both Feet on the Ground. Endorsed by Oprah’s Soul Series radio host Elizabeth Lesser, and best-selling authors Oriah Mountain Dreamer and Katherine Woodward Thomas, “Ascending” is a collection of some of Jeff’s most popular spiritual graffiti—quotes, soul-bytes and aphorisms frequently shared in social media. He has been interviewed by CNN radio, appeared on Fox, and written a series of inspirations for ABC’S Good Morning America. He is the author of the viral blog “Apologies to the Divine Feminine (from a warrior in transition)” and the producer and key journeyer in the award winning spiritual documentary – Karmageddon- which also stars Ram Dass, Seane Corn, David Life, Deva Premal and Miten. He is also the owner of the new publishing house ‘Enrealment Press’, which will be distributed by New Leaf Distribution. Their first publication- Love It Forward- will be released on Valentine’s Day, 2014. Endorsed by best-selling authors Carolyn Myss and Andrew Harvey, Love It Forward is Jeff’s second book of spiritual graffiti.


“We are powerful beyond measure, and so deeply vulnerable at the same time. This may seem like a dichotomy, but it isn’t. We have misunderstood real power. It has been something assertive, non-surrendering, pushing on through. This is not real power. This is simply willfulness. Real power is something else—receptivity, open-ness, the courage to keep your heart open on the darkest of days, the courage to work through unresolved emotions, the strength to feel it all even when the odds are stacked against you. Real power is showing up with your heart on your sleeve and absolutely refusing to waste one moment of your life hidden behind edginess and armour. The art of enheartened presence. Now that’s power.”


moon goddess



marisa lotus2 Add to Cart


If you wish to read about the Soulshaping Institute Economic Philosophy and Payment Methods before ordering.


If you would like more information on the Sacred Purpose Course.


For those not familiar with audio downloads, it is very simple. After you sign up, a code will be sent to the email you provide. You click the code and the course easily downloads to your computer. In the download are six separate MP3 classes, and a printable 64 page written document with optional exercises and meditations in PDF.

If you have any issues or questions concerning this course please contact us directly at:  


Be Sociable, Share!


Comment from Shanti Shaharazade
Time January 17, 2014 at 1:10 am

This, your message, is so necessary in today’s world. I will be taking this course myself as soon as I am able. It is only by love that we can heal ourselves and pay the light forward. So glad that you are the light that you are Jeff. I am hugely grateful!

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time January 17, 2014 at 1:19 am

Hello, I came across you when I received a facebook post 🙂 I ‘liked’ your site and I’m inspired by what you have written (or rather, what I have read so-far…) I don’t have a computer at present,only a Blackberry phone (and that’s limited for downloads at the best of times) I’m not sure how else I would be able to access your course, so I may have to wait until I have a laptop.. I’m currently a Full-time mum (so not ‘working’ outside of that) and would like to ask that you consider a low payment fee if and when I manage to subscribe to the course download? 😀 please will you keep me on your mailing list… Thankyou Sincerely Nicola-rose* 🙂

Comment from Diane
Time January 17, 2014 at 4:14 am

I just listened to the first class and I feel so relieved that my pain is seen. I have never felt like a single man in my life realizes the pain they have left behind. I am crying listening to the course. Thank you.

Comment from Laura
Time January 20, 2014 at 3:33 am

I listened to Class One last night, and I have so much to say, I don’t know where to begin…
I thought I’d wept out, screamed out, grieved out, worked out, lived out most of my pain and anger. I was wrong.
I’ve read, studied, listened, done process after process, done therapy, been “Abraham-ed,” Advaita-ed, Admonished, and Accused. I’ve been everything but fully Authentic…
Until this.
The “Sacred Feminine” course is remarkable. I can feel it already.
Your impact on human consciousness and healing is and will be immense and profound. This is only the beginning.
Thank you.

Comment from paul monteith
Time January 25, 2014 at 1:58 am

…hi all, can someone organise to get a message to Nicola-rose, who posted saying she needs a computer to download these courses …. as an “apology”, from me, who, in times past has been “very unawake” I’m able to provide funds for purchase of a laptop …. am presuming the site owner will allow this (hi Jeff) ….. I’m in Australia, have PayPal to transfer money …. w/love, namaskar

Comment from Mary Ann
Time January 26, 2014 at 7:57 pm

Will the audio file stay permanently or is it a timed organism?

Comment from Jeff Brown
Time February 1, 2014 at 4:23 am

Hi Mary,
The audio file is downloaded to your desktop.

Pingback from Prismatic Events, LLC
Time January 31, 2014 at 2:27 am

[…] […]

Comment from Charlon Bobo
Time January 31, 2014 at 3:04 am

What men are creating during this evolutionary leap is absolutely astounding and essential for our collective ascension. Thank you, Jeff, for giving women a safe nest, under the protective wing of the embodied masculine Divine so we can heal into wholeness. I love you for providing this haven for those women who will allow and receive your gracious gift of this inspired work. I bow to your beauty.

Comment from Amanda
Time February 8, 2014 at 11:21 pm

Paul Montief,
You just made me cry.

Comment from Padma Priya
Time February 11, 2014 at 8:20 pm

Love and Light

Comment from Sarah
Time February 14, 2014 at 6:07 pm

Thank you Jeff for this unique contribution. 3 of us have downloaded it and we have finished the first two classes. Hearing a man’s voice supporting our healing makes all the difference. The healing has begun.

Comment from Laura Beth Walker
Time February 21, 2014 at 9:13 pm

For me, Sacred Feminine Rising is a piercing arrow of grace. It flies straight and true to the heart of the matter . . . to the heart of what matters.
Everything I’ve covered up, run from, forgotten or fought is coaxed or dragged to the light of acknowledgment by the soothing, loving voice of Jeff Brown . . . a Truth Lion among men.
As I listen to the classes, my feelings stand naked before me, and I stand naked before them.
The course provides a cocoon where healing can begin, or as in my case, where healing can continue from all the places I left off, got lost, or abandoned my attempts to understand my inner world and outer experiences.
It brings me face to face with the possibility of release from whatever still keeps me from expressing the perfect love I’m made of and want to express fully in this wondrous life.
Sacred Feminine Rising shows me how to choose freedom. The rest is up to me.
I’m grateful for this miracle, and I bow to Jeff Brown for creating it.

Comment from Ginger
Time February 28, 2014 at 6:11 am

Hello to all,
As a woman,I know it can be difficult to see your shadow . I recognized mine by seeing his,(my husband of 28 yrs.)interesting how things unravel.i am thankful for it all,a wonderful wake~up call.

Comment from Ginger
Time February 28, 2014 at 6:15 am

Hello to all,
As a woman,I know it can be difficult to see your shadow . I recognized mine by seeing his,(my husband of 28 yrs.)interesting how things unravel.i am thankful for it all,a wonderful wake~up call. What a beautiful website,thanks Jeff ,heart and soul! Ginger

Comment from Michele Dunkley
Time March 7, 2014 at 4:29 pm

Will be trying to save some money to buy this download..I think I have been waiting my whole 55yrs to be able to stand up and be ME..So much hurt inside….x

Comment from Susan Bayard Rifkin
Time March 14, 2014 at 2:29 am

Hi Jeff – how ironic that you offer this, endorsed by someone whose relationship class i just bailed OUT of, since it was based upon the premise that we AGREE to EVERYTHING. I think it is clear from your writing that you agree with my contention that CHILDREN DO NOT AGREE TO THEIR ABUSE. THanks for being a voice of sanity.

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 12:02 am


Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 6:58 pm

Hello i wrote a post on here back in jan. i came across this again on my fb page and was reading through the comments surprised to see my name mentioned in a message from Paul Monteith. And the kind offer of a laptop..well, how humbled and touched i was to read this. Thankyou so much for your offer Paul

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 6:59 pm

Hello i wrote a post on here back in jan. i came across this again on my fb page and was reading through the comments surprised to see my name mentioned in a message from Paul Monteith. And the kind offer of a laptop..well, how humbled and touched i was to read this. Thankyou so much for your offer Paul

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 7:05 pm

..but since upgrading my neanderthal blackberry phone to a Samsung galaxy i can now receive decent downloads! So no need for a laptop! Woohoo!

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 7:06 pm

Thankyou so much Paul, you are very kind

Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 7:08 pm


Comment from Nicola-rose
Time May 9, 2014 at 7:09 pm

Comment from Liila
Time June 23, 2014 at 7:48 am

Nice idea, but how is it that women, the most targeted “market” in the Western world, are supposed to pay for yet another course related to gender transgressions imposed by men? Why not develop a course for men, asking men to get it together, and target the guys on the planet? Men still outperform females in all corners of the globe re financial earnings–let them be the ones to pay for the products and listen to the audio.

Comment from Kriss
Time July 30, 2014 at 8:24 pm

Oh I wish I was working. I’m signing up the minute I have extra money

Comment from Rolf Vellek
Time April 27, 2015 at 9:24 pm

As a newly ‘awakened’ man, and thankful that I did awaken, but at an incredible price, I will offer my former spouse to purchase this course for her. As time continues, I realize how prevalent it is that men are not awakened and in touch and how destructive that, combined with additional learned dysfunctional behavior can be. As I work furiously on my journey of growth now, am glad to help her heal and grow.
That said, the mission going forward should be working to awaken men before it is too late, that is the key. We must get men to wake up and accept the realities before further destruction occurs.

Leave a comment

This blog is kept spam free by WP-SpamFree.